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Never Ask These Questions from a Wedding Photographer

  • Writer: Kiwi Moments Media
    Kiwi Moments Media
  • Apr 14, 2022
  • 4 min read

Updated: Aug 11

For many people, starting a discussion is challenging, and when the talk is about something technical, it becomes even more arduous and uncomfortable.

The bride and groom posing for a photo with a white classic vintage car at Bangor Farm, a classic shot by Christchurch wedding photography.
The newlyweds pose by a vintage classic car, a fun and unique photo opportunity at Bangor Farm. Kiwi Moments Media's Christchurch wedding photography and videography captures every detail, from the couple to the classic car.
The bride and groom toasting with their bridal party on a gravel path at Bangor Farm, a festive moment captured by Christchurch wedding photography.
A lively celebration moment with the bridal party toasting to the happy couple on the grounds of Bangor Farm. Our Christchurch wedding photography and videography team, Kiwi Moments Media, excels at capturing these joyful and memorable group shots at Bangor Farm.

When a couple contacts a wedding photographer for the first time, they often feel nervous. It is good that they feel compelled to ask a few questions. Everybody wants to know more about what they want to spend their money on. However, asking incorrect questions can perplex the photographer and prevent you from receiving the wedding images you want. Throughout my career, most couples I've worked with knew what they wanted and they were able to explain their desired photo style. I have read a lot of online advice and suggested questions to ask a potential wedding photographer. Some of the questions are valid, but some are neither useful nor relevant.

The bride and groom laughing together in the back of a vintage classic car at Bangor Farm, a fun moment captured by Christchurch wedding photography.
The newlyweds share a happy, loving moment in a classic car, with the scenic landscape of Bangor Farm in the background. Kiwi Moments Media's Christchurch wedding photography team expertly captures these romantic portraits with unique elements.
The bride getting ready with her bridesmaids in a room at Bangor Farm, a candid moment captured by Christchurch wedding photography.
An intimate moment of the bride getting ready for her big day, with her bridesmaids assisting with the final touches at Bangor Farm. Kiwi Moments Media's Christchurch wedding photography team expertly documents the excitement of bridal prep.
A romantic photo of the bride and groom embracing in a field with trees at Bangor Farm, a stunning portrait by Christchurch wedding photography.
A romantic portrait of the bride and groom embracing in a picturesque field, with stunning trees and scenery at Bangor Farm. This is a perfect example of the beautiful couple portraits created by Christchurch wedding photography at Bangor Farm.

In this post, as a Christchurch wedding photographer, I'll discuss two incorrect questions that I've been asked in the past and offer advice on how to change them to more appropriate ones.

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Christchurch wedding photographer in Hanmer Springs: A close-up detail shot of the sparkling wedding rings, including a diamond engagement ring and a diamond wedding band, resting on a white rose in the bridal bouquet.
The bride and her father walking down the aisle towards the ceremony at Bangor Farm, a special moment captured by Christchurch wedding photography.
The emotional moment as the bride and her father walk arm-in-arm towards the ceremony at Bangor Farm. Our Christchurch wedding photography and videography services capture the unique bond between family members.
A white wedding dress hanging in front of a window at Bangor Farm, a beautiful detail shot by a Christchurch wedding photographer.
A stunning shot of the bride's wedding dress hanging elegantly, with natural light pouring in through the window at Bangor Farm. This is one of the important details captured by our Christchurch wedding photography team.

1- What is your camera brand?

It may look funny, but this is an actual question that many couples ask.

Without getting into the technical aspects of this question, I will tell you that this is one of the worst questions a couple could ask. If you are a professional photographer, you never ask this question. As soon as you ask this question, you reveal that you possibly don't know much about photography, and I think it goes against the purpose of the question. It is normal if you don't know much about photography or video production. We photographers don't know about your job and skills either.


We don't choose a restaurant because of the brand of its pots or oven. We go there because of the taste of the food. This is true about photos and videos also. Focus on what you like in the photographer's portfolio and verify that you get it. You may still want to ask about the quality of the cameras that the photographer uses. Then, you might ask questions like this: are your current cameras capable of taking photographs that we like in your portfolio? Or ask if the photographer or video-maker has backup cameras. It assures you that if one camera stops working, another good camera is available to continue taking photos.


Christchurch wedding photography at Sumner Beach  by Kiwi Moments Media: Bride by the ocean at sunset, bathed in romantic golden light.
Golden hour magic. A stunning bride soaking in the sunset by the ocean—captured by Kiwi Moments Media, Christchurch's trusted wedding photography & videography team.

2- Is your camera a full-frame?

It is another question that knowing its answer doesn't change anything for you. Even many new photographers care about this as a crucial factor. But to be honest, in most scenarios, it is not important at all. When I go to a wedding, I usually have 2-3 cameras with me, and many times I take my best photos with my cheapest cameras. I chose this photo to add to the article because I shot it with an old, not expensive camera and it still gets a lot of attention.


To summarize, you hire a photographer and their style, skill, and experience, not a camera. The brand of the camera and the fact that it is full-frame may determine one per cent of the outcome. The rest of %99 is related to the photographer or video maker. In future posts, I will talk about other common questions and what you should care about and ask about when you choose a wedding photographer or video maker.


Christchurch wedding photography by Kiwi Moments Media: Bride in white gown and groom in vest share a tender embrace in an open field at dusk, under a cloudy, serene sky.
Wrapped in love and golden light 🌾 This romantic sunset moment on a Christchurch farm is what wedding dreams are made of—captured by Kiwi Moments Media, specialists in wedding photography and videography across New Zealand.

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The bride and groom laughing and dancing at their Bangor Farm wedding reception, a candid moment captured by Christchurch wedding photography.
A candid and fun shot of the happy couple laughing together at their reception dance floor at Bangor Farm. Our Christchurch wedding photography team captures the authentic joy and personality of the couple throughout their wedding day.
The mother of the bride helping her daughter with the back of her wedding dress in a candid shot taken at Bangor Farm, a cherished memory captured by Christchurch wedding photography.
A heartfelt moment as the mother of the bride helps her daughter with her wedding dress before the ceremony at Bangor Farm. Our Christchurch wedding photography team captures these intimate and emotional family moments.
A close-up of a groom adjusting his tie with his groomsmen, showing off their wedding attire at Bangor Farm; a detail shot by a Christchurch wedding photographer.
A detailed shot of the groom and groomsmen putting on their final attire, adjusting their ties and buttonholes at Bangor Farm. These are the small details our Christchurch wedding photography and videography services capture.






2 Comments


Desmond Downs
Desmond Downs
Apr 15, 2022

To be fair most people who would ask these questions probably have an interest in photography and are just curious. Also, though I personally have never shot full frame it is quite often an indication of a working professional as opposed to someone who just bought their first DSLR and now thinks they are good enough to shoot weddings. Perhaps you could mention that the best question to ask is "Can I see a sample of a full wedding you have shot" because that is the greatest indicator of someone who can present a decent level of quality as opposed to someone who can show a few lucky shots from several occasions.


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rjarvandi
Apr 15, 2022
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Hi Desmond,

You are right that people who ask about camera brands or if they are full-frame have an enthusiasm for photography and probably some familiarity with the issue. In the context of seeking someone to shoot their wedding, however, this question simply misses the opportunity to ask relevant questions. However, the photographer and the couple generally develop into friends during the wedding process, and the couple can ask more casual questions. I occasionally get questions from former clients who want to know how to choose a good camera for themselves or their relatives. I'm pleased to help them.


I agree with your assessment of the portfolio and the lucky shot. it is usually possible to narrow down tons of images…


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